21st century love guru and relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin has listed 20 things a guy shouldn’t do or ask when he meets a Lady.
1⃣ Men shouldn’t look at their phones more than the Lady while on a date
2⃣ don’t Talk about your Bank account or how much your father has ; this puts ladies off (Bragging)
3⃣ Smelling Bad ( Mouth or Body Odour is a No. No)
4⃣ Don’t ask ” are you a virgin?” 5⃣ Don’t ask her how many guys she’s been with ( Body Count)
6⃣ If she’s going to pay for the movie or dinner let her know in advance ( no unexpected ATM failures, I forgot my wallet at home)
7⃣ When your phone rings on a date and you’re asked where you are? Don’t give a degrading response eg ( I dey with that big ass babe, I dey with tolu big Breasts, I dey with that weekend chops I teh u about”
8⃣ Don’t insist on a “come to my house first date” or come to my friends house first date
9⃣ Don’t leave your date to talk to another Lady for more that 2 minutes
? Don’t buy her too many gifts she may think ure trying to “buy” her
1⃣1⃣ If for any reason someone else needs to be in the car, don’t put her in the back seat
1⃣2⃣ Don’t compare her to your Ex
1⃣3⃣ Don’t talk about her weight or hair in a negative way eg ( some guys may say : ure about to burst out of that dress, your hair should be due by now ?) 1⃣4⃣ After the first sex always call as a courtesy (whether the sex was good or bad)
1⃣5⃣ Table manners ( don’t make sounds with ur mouth while eating, don’t talk while there’s food in your mouth, don’t use fork & knife for icecream)
1⃣6⃣ Focus your eyes on her eyes not her breast or ass. ( don’t look at any other lady asides her on a date)
1⃣7⃣ Projecting yourself as someone youre not (Ladies can spot fake confidence, or a fake in general) Don’t borrow ur friends car and say it’s yours, don’t lie your friend’s apartment is yours)
1⃣8⃣ Don’t be too touchy & feely on a first date
1⃣9⃣Don’t be rude or nasty to the waiter or waitress to impress your date
2⃣0⃣ Don’t ask her for money
2⃣1⃣Don’t ask for pictures unless she offers
