According to Pastor Chris Oyakhilome, a Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage but rather master. That the beauty of a woman lies in listening to her husband and most women have never been taught by their fathers, hence they think their husband is another woman. Read below.
“Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage, husband means master. The reason for most problems in Christian marriages is the fact that women refute God’s definition of marriage and form theirs. They believe they are equal partners.
If most women had their fathers bold enough to talk to them, they will be very successful in their marriage and they will be very happy people. Most women have never been taught by their parents, their fathers particularly and that’s their biggest problem because they don’t know who a man is, they think he is another woman.
In marriage, you have the man who is the head of that union and because he’s the head of that union, its important to understand him. You think he’s the one that needs to understand his wife and that is where you are wrong. He will eventually but you have to know the type of man you are married to and his needs.
When you say you are marrying a man, you are coming under his authority. The Bible says, the man is the head of the woman (1 Corinthians 11:3) so when you marry him you come under his authority, you are not authority sharers even though you are both heirs to the kingdom of God.
When you decide not to subject yourself to that authority, you are a rebel and God is not going to accept what you are doing because you are not functioning correctly. Why did God make the woman?
Making woman was not God’s original plan because after God created Adam and before He made Eve, He said in Genesis 1:31 “Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very good”. God made woman because of man so woman was not His original idea. This is reality.
Genesis 2:18a “And the Lord God said “for it is not good for a man to be alone..” The Bible didn’t say “lonely” but “alone”. There is a big difference. Man wasn’t lonely but alone. Genesis 2:18b “…I will make him an help meet”. He didn’t say a partner or a supervisor or a special advisor or someone to tell him what to do.
JASMINE Sylva
September 9, 2016 at 1:23 am
that’s an undeniable truth…..
many young women today are confusing themselves about this,asking for equal right which can’t be,that’s why most women end up being either divorcées or forever single and frustrated, what angers me most is that the people frontiering this EQUALITY MOVEMENT themselves are single desperate and frustrated sugar-mummies or even at worst lesbians, so they advice their folks to embrace lesbianism instead of receiving orders from a man… its a pity.