Kemi Oyesola aka Coach Kemi is a Prolific, Bold and Fearless Speaker of the Truth, Coach, Author, Mentor and CEO of How2Think Global Consulting Empire.
She is the ‘creator’ of How2Think and Dominates Mastermind, Idea to Income 6-Week Intensive and How2Think Thinking School.
Reacting to Mr Ibu adopted daughter Jasmine Okafor’s post on how she filed for divorce from her UK-based husband identified as MD, nine months after marriage because he never mentioned he was divorced nor had kids, Kemi said,
Every single person, can not think beyond what we know, what we know is the same as information and the information we have determine what we will think of.
I have been separated and divorced since 2006, I think it’s a beautiful thing, it’s painful, I can still recall the pain but if I were her, I would sit with him and ask him why he didn’t tell me, I would speak to him and because he loves, so much, that’s a price so okay, we are going to parents these children together but we are going to have a deep conversation, he didn’t have to hide that and shouldn’t have.
The way young people think including my daughter, they dint take any mess but again it’s how they think. I remember my mum told me Kemi if you had told me you were having problems in your marriage I would have told you to stay.
I thought about it and I prefer this Kemi to that Kemi. I like this person and I thank God for that part. I would not be here today because I had properly would be dead because I tried suicide twice.
I get attacked always for this but suicide to me is stupid, it’s a dump, it’s selfish and just silly. It’s a lack of thinking and just nonsense. You can hang in there and draw the love of God from within.
I was in that marriage for 16 and half years and the problem started after year 1 and but I stayed there and I kept telling myself that there was nothing I can’t forgive. I had to let him go and I am grateful because my path is already mapped. I may not get it but it’s okay.
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