Nigerian star dancer and coach, Kafayat Shafau, popularly known as Kaffy, opens up on her separation from her husband, Joseph Ameh.
“I Am single, Not Searching” – Kaffy Speaks On Separation From Husband
Recall that in January 2022, the dance instructor announced her divorce via a post on her official Instagram page.
According to Kaffy in an interview with media personality, Chude Jideonwo, she disclosed that her former husband was cheating on her and sleeping with her best friends.
She said,
“If I had known I won’t have jumped into that fire, I thought he was just sleeping with strangers but I found out he was sleeping with my best friends, people I knew…
“I was thinking at the beginning that I had found someone to completely make me happy but that was selfish thinking, no human being should be your source of happiness.
“When you see him, you will think he can’t even hurt a fly because he is always calm, and he has now made me afraid of calm people cos hmm, inside he is.
“I held him in high regard until I had to ask him why he was treating me the way he was. I asked him, what do you have against me, that is making you sleep around and with my best friends!
Kaffy further revealed that she found her peace by not sleeping with him after she found out he was cheating on her.
“I stopped sleeping with him because he was dishonest with me and it was when I stopped sleeping with him, that the greatest level of healing started,” she said.
“I Am single, Not Searching” – Kaffy Speaks On Separation From Husband
Speaking more on it, Kaffy revealed on Wake Up Nigeria show on TVC that she is single and not searching.
She said,
I am single and not searching. lol
“Life is balanced, life goes on. One of the thing i have been trying to make people understand about the situation of being divorced or being separated from your spouse is leaving in peace and not in bitterness.
“Life is a journey. Life happens. We are not going to hold on to our past we gonna have to move forward. For me as a single mother now, i am wiser about a lot of things.
“Spiritually i have grown, emotionally, psychologically i am still growing and i am still finding myself. And i am ready to explore who i am even more than before. I am just open to life” she added.
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