WUN Hosts react to Eva Alordiah’s advice to women.
Nigerian rapper, Eva Alordiah on her Twitter account has made an attempt to explain why women chose to remain in abusive relationships.
The rapper took to social media to share that most ‘intelligent’ women fail to leave abusive relationships primarily because they see the man as a provider and they often rely on him.
Why Are Many Intelligent Women Stuck In A Toxic Relationship?
She stated in her post that women who are in relationships for the money should simply make it known. She wrote,
“Sis, you have to really decide if you want a man with whom to explore this beautiful life, or if you want ATM,” she wrote.
“A relationship is not something you do to get money. Go get you a job or get your skills up if you tryna get paid.”
“This phase ‘men are providers’ has got a lotta of people growing a toxic sense of entitlement. Men have needs too.
A man is happy to provide where he feels nurtured and cared for, it’s their nature. He can’t go against nature, all things been equal,” she added.
“Let’s make relationship healthy again. Let’s make the ‘self’ healthy again. Take time out for you, heal yourself and old wounds.
Escape into your sense of wonder and individualism. Do your thing, make your own money.
“So many bright, intelligent women are stuck in toxic unhealthy relationship simply because they know no other way to fend for themselves except through a man.
“God has deposited so much power and potential in you for you not to have your own way in this world.
Let a man come in to add to what you’ve already got while you add unto him to.”
”“If you’re selling p*ssy, just say so..” this phrase “Men are providers” has got a lotta people growing a toxic sense of entitlement.
PSA: Men have needs too!
“I don’y want that kind of life for none of my Sistars.
“PS: Stop listening to me. What the f*ck does a Single, Horny woman like me know about relationships?
“Tueh Tueh!”
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