Do you agree with us that only you can change yourself. What is that one truth you have learnt but you’re uncomfortable with?
We all want to know the truth but if the truth is not comfortable we get annoyed and wish we never heard about it at all. The fact is truth is always uncomfortable as it is only comforting to those who do not wish to ignore it.
Today we have put together five uncomfortable truth we all need to accept wether we like it or not.
- Happiness is where you are and no where else. Drop the misconception about happiness because it’s not in a new job, not in a new relationship, not in a completed goal and not even in a new car. Until you give up that mindset that happiness is somewhere else it will never be where you are.
- Quitting is for winners. Contrary to popular opinion, quitting is actually for winners. Knowing when to quit, knowing when to change direction or leave a toxic situation or even demand more from life or even giving up on something that isn’t working or when to move are very important skills that people who win at life all seems to have.
- Taking no risk is the biggest risk. Making the wrong decision does not inquire you’re a failure. You only fail when you stop trying because you have to risk failure to succeed, you also have to risk rejection to be accepted and sometimes you also have to risk heartbreak to be loved.
- Call yourself out. The most common reason why people make the same mistake is if their insecure ego prevents them from taking responsibility for their own mistakes and their own toxic trait. You have to constantly call yourself out because it simply mean you care more about your future, your progress and your happiness than just protecting your ego.
- It’s not your job to fix damaged people. You take responsibility helping someone who will never take the responsibility to help themselves but it is worth asking yourself why you resonated so strongly with a someone that so desperately needs fixing in the first place because often times, our own toxic romantic and non romantic attachment tell a story about an issue we have within ourself.
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